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How to Give a Rim Job

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How to Give a Rim Job



Rimming, or analingus, is when you kiss, caress or penetrate your lover's anal opening with your tongue. The anus has a plethora nerve endings and many people enjoy analingus as a regular practice. Some may be turned off by the practice thinking it's too "dirty" literally and figuratively. But some are also attracted to it because it can be a turn on to engage in something so taboo.



  • Rimming Techniques
  • Rimming Tips
  • Rimming Hygiene
  • How To Give a Rim Job

    How to Rim

    Rimming, or analingus, is when you kiss, caress or penetrate your lover's anal opening with your tongue. The anus has a plethora nerve endings and many people enjoy analingus as a regular practice. Some may be turned off by the practice thinking it's too "dirty" literally and figuratively. But some are also attracted to it because it can be a turn on to engage in something so taboo.

    You can experiment with rimming by incorporating it into fellatio or cunnilingus. But I you're performing oral sex on a female be sure to rim last - don't return to.

    Rimming Technique:

    • The best position for rimming is doggie style. This way you can have access to the entire anal area and also choose to reach around and stimulate the penis or clitoris on your partner.
    • All people have some hair around their anus. Some men can be especially hairy but using your hands to pull the hair away from the anus can help.
    • Slowly begin licking and kissing the slope of the crack of the buttocks.
    • Work your partner into the sensation.
    • Lick with a flat tongue go along from top to bottom like an ice cream.
    • Press your flattened tongue over the opening, slowly teasing it in.
    • With soft, moist lips gently kiss all around the anus.
    • Swirl your tongue around the rim.

    Rimming Tips:

    Just like any oral sex, work your way into a rhythm and see what feels best for your partner. Switch it up occasionally at first and then continue the rhythm.
    Work your way up to "tongue fucking" - actually inserting your firmly elongated tongue into the anus.
    Some men and women can orgasm from rimming alone, some can't. Communicate with your partner.

    Rimming Hygiene:

    This is a major issue for most people when it comes to rimming and why many don't even try it. A good way to start is by taking a shower together and giving your first rim job as a culmination to the process. Either way a little clean up prior is suggested.

    Risk:

    There is some risk associated with rimming without a barrier. Unprotected, it potentially can transmit Herpes, anal warts, Hepatitis A and possibly HIV.
    A barrier is your best bet but if not, at least get a Hepatitis A shot. Be aware that you are at even greater risk if you have a cut or bite in your mouth. This includes if you recently brushed or flossed your teeth; both activities cause tiny cuts and bleeding within your mouth.

    Oral Barriers:

    Dental dams are perfect for rimming - as long as neither one of you has a latex allergy. If you do, use plastic wrap instead, but be sure to use the non-microwavable kind. This kind doesn't have small perforations in it.

    Digital Barriers:

    No not digital as in electronic, but as in your fingers. Latex/latex-free gloves are great for keeping bacteria off of your fingers and it makes it easier to avoid spreading bacteria from the anus to the vagina. Finger cots (covers the fingers but not the palm) can also be used - just don't lose one in the suction of the anus sphincter. You can also try toys that cover the finger (Totem Finger Plug) but offer a little more girth than the finger alone.

    Accoutrements:

    Flavored lubricants are an option for those unsure of how they might deal with their partner's own natural flavor but they can also be useful in moistening the anus for insertion play. Not all taste great and they tend to have lot of sugar in them. Experiment and see what you like.

    Benzocane is a numbing agent in most lubes developed for anal play. These can leave your tongue numb as well as your partner's anus. Anal stimulation does not have to be painful and therefore these types of lubes are rarely needed.

    Many people love to experiment with food products when rimming. This can mean anything from honey, to chocolate syrup, to a squeeze of a lemon. Some do it to improve taste and some do it for the novelty.

    Try using an insertable anal vibrator (we recommend the Vibrating Anal Beads) and rim around it for an extreme sensation.




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