Women want to feel appreciated, safe and joyous in the sex act. All three are important when seducing a women. Here are more tips to get her in the right 'head-space' for sex.
A helpful guide from Libida.com on the subtle art of seducing the fairer sex.
How to Seduce a Woman
Use Your WordsWords are the first stop to reaching a woman's clitoris. Language means connection, which helps to establish that this lover is safe and appreciative of who she is. You don't have to recite poetry, but you will have to have some sort of conversation.
Tip: Talking about her interests and dreams will make you look like the most interesting person in the world!
Be Bold, Not PushyLet her know you are interested, but don't put her on the spot. She needs to know that you are attracted to her, but too much 'forward' energy can make her feel pressured. One of the biggest turn-offs for a woman is feeling that sex is expected of her.
Stimulate Her Mind FirstWhen a woman's brain is stimulated her clitoris is not far behind. Women love to use their brains in sex. Incorporating a sexual scenario/fantasy into your love life can open up many different possiblities into a long-term relationship or with a new parter.
Draw it outSexual arousal can arrive almost instantaneously for some women. But most will not act on that arousal until they know they are emotionally and physically safe. Therefore, take your time and enjoy the process.
Make Her Wait. Set it up for her to come to youWomen have sex thrust into their faces at many more occasions than men. They are accustomed to thwarting advances. While you must never make her feel rejected, you can fuel her desire by letting her wait for sex a little. Anticipation is one of the most successful aphrodisiacs.
More Seduction Tips:
1. Appreciate What She Does for You
2. Give Her Gifts:
3. Use Humor that Connects:
4. Pay Attention to the Details:
5. Use Your Imagination:
6. Be a Hero -- Be Gallant:
7. Do Your Research:
8. Clean Up:
9. Compliment Her, don't Flattter Her:
10. Give her Notice: