By far the most common question we receive at Libida is how couples can put more focus on the clitoris during intercourse. Here are some tips on how to locate it and, once you've located it, how to make it feel amazing.
Information about all things clitoris, including:
Stimulating the Clitoris with Intercourse
The Clitoral Anatomy
Best Positions for Clitoral StimulationSince every woman's anatomy and geography is slightly different, there is no panacea-position for hitting the spot. But, here are the common ones:
It's a HandfulThe best positions that allow hands free to roam to the right spot.
Get creative with your clitorisVulva Massage - Slip the penis out and, supporting it with the hand, slide the glans of the penis over the vulva and clitoris giving the clitoris a glorious penile massage.
Too Tired?What to do when you get tired? Lie on your stomach with a stiff pillow positioned directly underneath your pelvis, and rub your clit over the pillow while he penetrates her from behind.
How to ask for more Clitoral Action
Vibrators can Help
Tips for MenRemember that when she is excited, the clitoris will retreat behind the hood, which can make it a little hard to find. The clitoris can become overly sensitive and will then welcome "indirect" stimulation. In that case, massage in circles around the area, look for her reactions, and ask her what she'd like you to do. Note that if you want to know what it feels like for a woman to have her vagina stimulated without stimulating the clitoris, try having an orgasm without touching your penis.
And Keep in MindAnalogous sex organs between the sexes:
Vagina = Scrotum.
Clitoris = Head of penis
Lips = Shaft of penis