Stimulating the Clitoris with Intercourse

The Clitoral Anatomy

• The clitoris sits outside and above the vagina where the lips come together. It is protected by a hood and is between ½" to 2" long -- with an average of 3/4" in length and 1/4" in diameter.
• Luckily, this is just the part we can see! The complete clitoris is actually approximately the size of a flaccid penis -- 4" in total. The part which you don't see extends down into two long legs (crura) that reach well into the inside of the body on either sides of the vulva.

• Because the clitoris is positioned inches outside of the vagina, it is almost impossible for the penis to stimulate it directly during intercourse.

• The clitoris does, in fact, get some clitoral stimulation from the act of intercourse. As the penis pulls out, it pulls the inner lips to the clitoris and rubs against it (pleasurable in itself). For some women, this can be enough to bring them to orgasm, but for over 60% of women it is not.

Best Positions for Clitoral Stimulation

• Look Ma, No Hands: The best positions for stimulating the clitoris without using outside stimulation Scissors - Lie on your sides, face each other, put his leg (and thigh) in between yours - his upper thigh can put great pressure on the clitoris.
• Legs Closed - Close your legs as he enters you. Commonly from behind or when you are on top of him. Closed legs increase the friction of the penis against the vulva and clitoris.
• Missionary position - He lies on top of you - face to face. His pelvic bone massages the clit when he has fully penetrated you.
• Woman on Top - You can grind away on top of him to your own rhythm and ideal pressure.

It's a Handful

• Doggy Style - His hand can reach around easily to the clit, Your hands can also reach easily down between your legs.
• Side by side - Lie facing the same direction as he spoons you, his hand can easily reach around.
• Half Facing - You lie on your back while he lies on his side. Put one leg (or both) over his body. You have easy access to your clit and he can caress your breasts and more.

Get creative with your clitoris

Too Tired?

How to ask for more Clitoral Action

• Plain and simple -- just ask.
• Take his hand and guide it to your clit. This is the least confrontational, and is very successful if he is paying attention.
• Talk to him when you are not sexual with each other. Tell him you need that extra stimulation. Give him some suggestions on which way you like it. Talk creatively about how to get the stimulation you want. It can really turn him on to hear you tell him what you want.
• Rub it yourself and hope he gets the hint.
• Watch a porn movie together that features clit stimulation and tell him how much it would turn you on to have him do that to you.
• Scream : "Touch my clit right now!"

Vibrators can Help

• Strap a vibrator on you. This is the best solution for many women. They get the vibration without work for either him or her.
  Try: Micro Butterfly Strap-On Vibrator
  
• Slip a vibrator on him. This vibrator helps you to enjoy something together. Many men are thankful to you for that help and the vibration he gets too. The draw back is that when he withdraws, so does the vibration.
  Try: Lelo Bo Vibrating Cock Ring
  

Tips for Men

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