What Men Want in a Lover

executive summary
200 men were asked to name THE one quality they found made their best female lover. The top three essential nuggets to being good in bed were a far cry from her body or her technique.

hot facts
#1. She is enthusiastic won out by far with 27%

What Do Men Think Makes a Good Lover?

What makes a woman a good lover?

200 men were asked to name THE one quality they found made their best female lover.  The top three essential nuggets to being good in bed were a far cry from her body or her technique, instead it is:

#1.  She is enthusiastic won out by far with 27% 

#2.  She is willing to try new things came a clear second with 18%

#3.  She learns what I like, and does it  9%

 

Others found the following things to be important:

She is kinky - 7% 
She is sensual - 5% 
She values how I please her - 4%
She talks easily to me about what we like/dislike - 4% 

More (not as popular) qualities were:

She moves with the rhythms of my body- 3%
She is creative - 3% 
She has very good technique - 3% 
She has a good body - 3% 
She makes me feel attractive - 2% 
She is rough the way I like it - 2% 
She is gentle - 1%
She 'gets' my body -1% 
She uses her tongue well - 1%
She uses fantasy - 1% 
She follows my mood - 1% 
The way she touches me - 1% 
The way she holds me - 1% 
The size of her breasts - 1%